The Magic of Looking Again

This assertion will oppose the "First Impression Last" statement. Looking once would not be a perfect way to conclude for anything whether it is a person or object, there are chance that we misinterpret because we're not so much keen in looking, that we missed other side of it, we must put in mind that although there are negatives but we must also give room for the positives that come in big and small portion. We must put in mind that anything can be improved and develop, but the sad thing is, sometimes we rely and contented to the conclusion of others regarding a certain thing that we do not try to look at it personally. Looking again will give chance for positive aspect, the ugly will be beautiful because you will start to appreciate the person in setting aside the negative portion of it. This is the secret why there are people who were developed and succeeded in doing things that others conceived it as ugly or unlovable. The ability to appreciate must be develop in a person so that he will learn to accept and love his environment.

The Four RINGs in a relationship

First is the Engagement Ring, we acquire it when we decided to accept each other and start the relationship of understanding and getting to know each other better. It is the period when we promise that the relationship we have at present will proceed to marriage.


Second is the Wedding Ring, it is one of the most happiest moment that would ever happen to life of groom and bride, will tie each other to move as one, is the event that both parties would like to cherish for long, the moment when you become free to start your own family.


Third is the Suffer Ring, nobody wants or would like to welcome this. But it arrives and come to life of husband and wife, it is inevitable so we must be ready to accept it when it arrives. It is the hard and easy test of relationship to both parties involve. But don't panic and give up because it spices the couple's relationship, life would not be comfortable without this ring. 

Love your Profession..

Our profession is the source of our living where we get the bread and butter that is essential for survival. It's too bad that when we go to work and we don't love it, especially in our profession. If we are not excited every morning about getting into the room with all these little kids with their bright eyes waiting for you to help them get to that table, then we must get out of education to do no harm in molding the future of the kids. Find another way or job that you would think would fit in your desire and wants. There are other things that you can do, but let the children alone.
Every one need to be recognized in what she/he doing, because life is continuous relating. Learn to appreciate and praise because that is the only way that you could make someone glad without  giving him anything.


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Fantastic Statement

It doesn't matter who you have hurt, if you've learned not to hurt again. It doesn't matter what mistakes you've made as long as you don't make them again. As long as you learn, as long as you're willing to take life in your hands, and kiss it and go from there. Then there is growth. Then there is life.

Forgive yourself for not being perfect. And accept the responsibility for your own life.

Accept Who we Are..

   Stop hating yourself. Stop running yourself down. Put your arms around yourself and say, “You know, you’re all right! You may be losing your hair, but you’re all I’ve got!”

When you make peace with your weakness, you’ve made it! They’re not big, they just a small part of you.

   You’ve got to choose yourself. I’m sure the people who take their lives, who don’t live, are basically those who have no feeling of self respect. I don’t know when the last time was that anybody told you this, but I want to stress it: You are a miracle.

Don't worry with less..

  Buddha once made an incredible statement. He said, “The less you have, the less you have to worry about.” Everyone says, “Oh, yes, that’s so true.” Yet we collect and we collect and we collect. We have things in our cupboards we haven’t used in a thousand years. The dishes that mother bought for us over the Mayflower-put them out! It is an insult who made them to keep them locked in the cupboards. Use them-that’s what they made for, too. Nothing is forever.

Investment for Life

"Life needs investment before it yields interest. Never surrender if the circumstances and situations are not according to what you desired. This is perhaps your effort and investment period in Life has tenure. The time your investment tenure is complete, you will be rewarded with interest for the years you invested.”

What Do You See?

   An economist was asked to talk to group of business people. She tacked up a big sheet of white paper. Then she drew a black spot on the paper and asked a man in the front row what she saw.

   The man answered promptly, “A black spot.”

   The speaker asked every person in the room the same question and each replied, “A black spot.”

   With calm and deliberate emphasis, the speaker then said, “Yes, there is a little black spot, but none of you mentioned the big sheet of white paper. And that’s speech.”

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